This page is for those who don't have a child living at home over whom they have legal, permanent guardianship. As such, it includes parents and step-parents whose children are permanently cared for elsewhere, those whose children are no longer living, temporary foster carers, and couples who have chosen to live child free.

I'll kick you out when you see a heartbeat or get matched with a specific child of your own. If this isn't good for you, let me know.

Also! Not all these blogs are active anymore. However, I'm keeping them here unless they're actually removed from the internet. Some of the archives are great, plus you never know when a blogger is going to pop up again out of the blue.

Email me at infertilefantasies at gmail dot com if you have anything to add or change.

• When's It Gonna Be My Turn? - through IVF and ICSI


• The Sweet Life - Vee's IVF with donor sperm and a fab photo series on "time"


• Diaries Of A Hopeful Dad To Be - Vee's Mr is Max/Dynamo Dad, now with comics (no longer updated)


• A Journey Through Infertility - was called Infertile Myrtle's Precarious Peregrination Through the Land of IVF - an IVF/IUI experience


• New Consumer Model - Bradley Littlejohn's adventures with clomid in cartoons (no longer updated)


• IVF and ICSI - as the name suggests (no longer updated)


• Perfectly Infertile Jill - now moving on to adoption. The story now continues at The Longest Wait


• Out Damned Egg! Out I Say! - doing IVF with donor embryos, and also pursuing domestic adoption in the US


• Perfectly Infertile - and also doing IVF (no longer updated)


• My IVF Journey - living childfree after IVF, ICSI, unexplained infertility, and bipolar disorder (no longer updated)


• project genesis - going through IVF for MFI


• Fortune Cookie Follies - may luck be a baby (through domestic adoption) tonight! Now also at Cats In The Cradle (where the baby should be). Email beagleblogger at gmail dot com for an invitation to read.


• The Impatient Patient - blogging about IVF, pregnancy loss, and adoption


• Vanilla Dreams - IVF, post ovarian cancer (now password protected)


• (NOT) Coming to a Uterus Near You - not hopeful of becoming a parent anymore, but hopeful nonetheless. A childfree life after infertility.


• An Ethiopian Adoption Journey - in the midst of the paperwork


• Baby Blues - from clomid/IUI to IVF (now password protected)


• For The Benefit of Mr Kite - Baby Blues' husband is Mr Kite (no longer updated)


• Baby Proof - inactively trying after IVF (this blog has been removed)


• Confessions of an Infertile - IVF/ICSI (this blog no longer updated)


• Disenchanted with the Reality that is My Life - trying to pursue IVF, getting sick with gall bladder disease, story now continues through adoption at Mixing It Up: Trying To Find My New Reality


• Losing The Baby Wait - clomid/IUI


• Miss E's Musings - giving IVF a go after IUI


• Offsprung - from the male point of view on the lead-up to IVF


• Painting Chef - clomid, pregnancy loss, and a long-suffering husband


• Snowflakes - a brief and discontinued IVF blog


• The Twatlight Zone - The Roving Infertiles tried IUI and IVF/ISCI, then they moved onto adoption as US expats living in Thailand at Thai Us Together, then they decided to discontinue the adoption process and close the blog.


• The Secret Garden - Infertility - IUI and clomid, then on to IVF


• Thin Pink Line - where next after IVF and pregnancy loss? Password protected - please email seekingpinkline at gmail dot com for more information or an invitation.


• i've got bad plumbing - immunological issues, blocked tubes, and IVF


• Reproductive Jeans - their journey through male factor infertility


• Outlandish Notions - an ex-clomid girl, moving on to a child-free life


• Southern Infertility - PCOS, hyperstimulation, IVF and where next? (no longer updated)


• Killing Time - PCOS, metformin and clomid - now moving to IUI, waiting for a buchiko to call her own


• Spiraling Into Control - trying to conceive after stillbirth and premature ovarian failure, using donor eggs


• Coming2Terms - living childfree after eleven years of infertility treatments


• Rotten Eggs: Musings of an IVF addict - trying to conceive through multiple IVF attempts


• Peanut's Journey - MF, endometriosis, progesterone deficiency, medicated IUIs, and IVF (now password protected)


• Child Bearing Hips - unexplained infertility, IUIs, an ectopic, and now IVF


• A day in the life of a moody person!! - PCOS, clomid, recurrent miscarriage


• Upon Awakening... - living childfree after infertility and divorce


• The Hardest Quest - clomid, injectibles, metformin, IUI and vasectomy reversal


• The Woman Who Cried Pregnant - MF, saving for international adoption from China


• Precious Little... - moving onto IVF after recurrent miscarriage


• Maybe Baby - clomid champs - the story according to him


• My Journey... towards my little miracle - endometriosis, IUI, and waiting for insurance


• One Hardy Swimmer! - DI after failed adoption


• onemoreweek - going the IVF road


• Behind The Mask - going through IVF/ICSI after clomid with PCOS and endometriosis


• Sarah Solitaire - hoping to become a single mum by choice through DIVF


• The Island - recovering after pregnancy loss, on the way to IUI and injectables? Now continuing at Doctor Grumbles I Presume


• Our IVF Journey - IVF, PGD and pregnancy loss due to balanced translocation. Continuing on to donor sperm at Not According To Plan. Now in limbo after loss of triplets.